We typically start life brimming with energy, curiosity, and a hunger to make a difference. Yet, as we grow older, something shifts. With maturity comes wisdom and a sense of contentment in our accomplishments, but often at the cost of our youthful enthusiasm. Our curiosity wanes, and we risk becoming jaded.
Does maturing mean we must lose the innocence and vitality of our youth? Is it possible to mature without losing that spark?
Before the Jewish people left Egypt, G-d empowered Moses to lead their redemption. In doing so, He affectionately referred to them as “My first-born son, Israel” a term that conveys maturity, as a nation. Elsewhere, however, G-d describes the Jewish people as His “youngest child,” (ki naar yisrael) evoking the pure, unconditional love a parent feels for an immature baby.
So which is ideal? The love for a young child, pure and untainted, unearned by accomplishments? Or the respect and admiration for a mature adult, shaped by growth and achievement?
The answer lies not in choosing one over the other but in combining the two. True maturity doesn’t require sacrificing innocence or purity. Instead, it should build upon these qualities. As we grow, our achievements and talents should be inspired by the sincerity and devotion we possessed in our youth.
This balance is the secret to spiritual and personal fulfillment. To embody the maturity of G-d’s “first-born son,” using our gifts to accomplish great things, while retaining the purity and untainted devotion of a “youngest child.” Our growth should never diminish our humility, nor should our achievements overshadow our sense of purpose.
When we harmonize these aspects, we can remain deeply inspired even as we mature, driven by the same pure energy that first inspired us to make a difference.
We conclude with an urgent prayer that G-d, in His infinite love for each of His children, extend that love to the 98 remaining hostages, including Kfir Bibas who recently turned two. May He swiftly and miraculously reunite them ALL with their families, bringing them home in safety and joy, Amen.