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Thoughts and Musings by Rabbi Yossi Zaklikofsky

My Shiva in Isolation

My Shiva in Isolation

My last week was a 24/6 marathon of non-stop calls, ‘Zooms’, emails and messages, as I sat Shiva, in isolation, for my dear father, of blessed memory. I am still deeply overwhelmed by the enormous outpouring of love and support from near and far, as I have come to learn how each message of comfort truly makes a difference.

With the new-world-order of Corona, in-person Shiva visits were replaced by very meaningful Zoom Shiva ‘meetings’. Hours upon hours of daily Zoom sessions with friends, family and community members logging in for virtual Shiva ‘visits’.

Now that Shiva has ended, I am facing the reality that I will never be able to hug my father, discuss Torah insights with him, or speak to him ever again. I think it’s the finality of his passing that is most difficult to accept. Me and Ta Gala.JPG

Over the past two weeks my family and I have heard from hundreds of people of all backgrounds, ages and stages, who were positively impacted by my father. Rabbis, colleagues, and young students alike shared their unique anecdotes and memories of ‘Rabbi Z.’. Most compelling, were the common themes that were repeated over and over again: “He lifted people up.” “He genuinely cared.” “He was there for me in my time of need.” “He was nonjudgmental and helped me through a challenging time.”

How fortunate I am to have been raised by such an unassuming and humble ‘quiet giant’. Each testimony is so valuable and I will do what I can to incorporate my father’s lessons into my own life. Hopefully, this will help me move forward.

One of the most critical tools for a happy life is knowing how to deal with challenges. My father sure had his share of challenges, yet he was blessed with the tools and wisdom to endure them with grace. His staunch faith in G-d, determination and love, helped him embrace each day as an integral part of his life’s unique mission. He was the greatest role model and living example to all of us. All we had to do was watch. He never preached, he just lived.

I have been thinking about how timely my father’s lessons are, considering the current challenges we are all now facing, personally and communally. Here is how my father would deal with the Covid-19 reality: He would never lose his cool. He would move forward, one day at a time. He would keep his faith strong and his attitude positive. He would never allow his inner conviction to slide. I truly hope I can emulate his ways.

The Rebbe taught us, that following the loss of a loved one, our focus should turn to the teaching of Ecclesiastes: “The living shall take to heart”. I know that I will miss my father dearly, but by devoting my life to living by his example, I hope to find a measure of comfort.

Shabbat Shalom and have a great week ahead!

Rabbi Yossi Zaklikofsky

 

Announcing Launch of Bellaire Torah Campaign

We are very excited to announce the launch of the Raphael and Lila Sinuk - Unity Torah Campaign, generously dedicated by their son, our dear friend, Mr. Jack Sinuk.

For nine years The Shul has been serving as a vibrant hub of spirituality and social activities for Jewish adult professionals and children, right in the center of Houston. A new Torah scroll is a sign of a vibrant community—a healthy community, a robust and flourishing community that is brimming with a vigorous Jewish pride. Here at The Shul, we are writing a new chapter of Jewish history: We are in the process of writing our community’s second Torah scroll.

Please join in writing history for our bright Jewish future, by generously participating in the Bellaire Unity Torah.

You may refer to the Participate page to make your selection, honoring yourself and your family or to eternalize the memory of a loved one. For any inquiries, please feel free to reach out.

We look forward to completing and welcoming the new Torah at The Shul in the coming months, please stay tuned.

With endless gratitude,
Rabbi Yossi and Esty Zaklikofsky

 

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Bellaire is grieving today

image.pngBellaire is grieving today. A young life snuffed out. Cesar Cortes had a whole life, a life of service, ahead of him. His family will never see him again. We are all in shock. How could this happen in our midst? Right here at Bellaire?

Firstly, Esty and I are here for anyone who needs assistance or support. Any student who feels the need to talk to a Rabbi, please reach out, whenever.

Second, when we encounter darkness and a tragedy of this nature, our job is to double down on bringing more goodness into our world, our community and our schools. I want to urge you to go out of your way today. Do something good and kind for another. Let's brighten the world today. Resolve a dispute, act selflessly to another, especially toward someone who thinks or looks different than you. Let's unite, let's begin to fix our broken world. You. Me. Now.

Is this the New Normal?


I spent a day in Brooklyn, NY this week.

This was the first time I actually felt the unsettling change in atmosphere. From the visible security beef up, to the signs in store windows, advertising: "We now carry pepper spray". We are all now asking the obvious question: "Is this the new normal?" 
 
While we don't have a definite answer to that question, we Jews are very well primed in how to respond. Aside from the obvious need for extra security and vigilance we must also send a strong message: Anti-Semites and hate filled people will never dictate or define who we are as Jews, or how we practice our Judaism.
 
We are Jews and we are proud! If we hide that fact, and cower in fear, then they have won the battle! 
 
We must not let them be victorious. Ironically, the very story of Chanukah demonstrates this message. The Jews refused to let the Greeks dictate their Judaism. They fought back against the tyranny. We need to increase in our Jewish pride at this time and never retreat! 
 
Here are a few ideas:
 
1. Get yourself a Mezuzah ASAP. The mezuzah is the Jewish spiritual security blanket and every Jewish home and business should have one. Please contact me to help you purchase one and have it posted.
 
2. Educate yourself. Become a more knowledgeable Jew! Buy a Jewish book for yourself or another, as the saying goes "knowledge is power"! (feel free to reach out for suggestions). Attend a class on Judaism, a great opportunity is the upcoming JLI course entitled “Judaism’s Gifts to the World” click here.
 
3. Go to Shul. Strengthen your Jewish identity and join with community on Shabbat.
 
May G-d bless us that 2020 be a much better year for Jewish people everywhere.
 
Rabbi Yossi and Esty Zaklikofsky

Abuzz With Activity

This week The Shul was abuzz with activity!

Friday Night Live’ was a smashing success, with a lively group of families, including many children, who joined together for a uniquely joyous and delicious Shabbat experience. We look forward to FNL next month on 12/13. This was followed the next day with Shabbat morning services and then a great day at Sunday School!

On Monday we continued with the second session of the new JLI course, with 25 registered students, the largest course ever. The ideas are powerful and potentially life changing!

On Tuesday was the annual JWOW women’s event, with lots of thought provoking ‘leadership’ ideas! For PICTURES CLICK HERE.

Last night a great group of guys gathered for the first ‘Jews, Booze and Schmooze’ of the season. We shared brotherhood, inspiration, great networking and a few L’chaims as well. Thank you so much Steven Kaufman for hosting.

The very first Jew in history, Abraham, set up the world’s first ‘Chabad House’! His tent had openings on all four sides, so whichever direction a potential guest was coming from, they would be easily welcomed into Abraham and Sarah’s tent. Like Abraham, all of us together, here in Bellaire, have created a space where every Jew is welcome. Regardless of which ‘direction’ in life they may be coming from, they all receive a warm welcome and find a space of comfort, peace and inspiration.

Esty and I are blessed to have you all as partners in this great endeavor!

Wishing you Shabbat Shalom and a great week ahead!

This Morning at Starbucks

This Morning at Starbucks

I started my day at Starbucks at 6:30 AM, studying Torah with a good friend. One of the ideas we discussed helped me process an amazing experience I had last weekend.

About 7,500 people spent last Shabbat in close proximity to the Ohel of the Rebbe, marking his 25th Yahrzeit. It was a Shabbat filled with learning, prayer, discussion and warm camaraderie.

It's hard to believe that it’s been so long since his passing, because he feels more present now, than ever before. The amount of centers around the world, opened in response to his call, has doubled since then, as did the amount of men and women dedicated to this sacred mission. While the number of Jews and non-Jews impacted by his teachings and example, numbers in the millions.

This morning, David and I discussed that the name of this week’s Torah reading is Chukat. Its meaning is also , “chiseling” or “engraving.” A letter chiseled into a block of stone (like on the two tablets) is part and parcel of that stone, not a second entity grafted onto it, as is the case with a letter written with ink on parchment or paper. The engraved letter cannot be erased from the stone, at least not without damaging the stone, the connection between the letter and the stone is permanent.

Our relationship with G-d should be, not only like two entities attached to each other, but actually ‘written in stone’. Then, regardless of the circumstances, it cannot be undone.

I think more than anything else, the Rebbe exemplified a life, where a Jew and G-d are not two separate entities, but one and the same, it is our very life itself. When you achieve that, you can be a proud, observant Jew in Russia under communism, in Anchorage, Houston or Salt Lake City, just like you can be in Brooklyn or Jerusalem.

 

We're Here to Stay!

Meet Mikelos, our kind neighbor in Bellaire, Texas. Neighbor Ozd Hungary.jpg

During our first Passover here, we needed to enlist a gentile to help us with food related preps (prohibited on the holiday.) A few doors away I met Mikelos working his lawn. I attempted a 30 second crash course on the religious observances of Passover. Less than halfway through my intro, Mikelos was nodding his head with enthusiasm: “Let’s go, I’ll help you, you don’t need to say another word."

“How did you know what I wanted without me telling you?” I asked.

 

Mikelos explained: “I knew exactly what you wanted. You see, I grew up in Ozd, Hungary, and before they came to take the Jews away, I had a Rabbi who lived on my street. When I was ten years old they would call on me to do the same thing you just asked me to do.”

77 years later Mikelos again lives on the same street as a Rabbi, a grandson of holocaust survivors. We are here to stay. Am Yisroel Chai!

 

 

 

Airplane Encounter

Today I made a quick trip to New York to commemorate the birthday of the Lubavitcher Rebbe. George on Plane.jpg

On my flight I met George, an Orthodox Christian, who lives in LA but grew up in NYC. During his college years a Jewish friend of his took him to Brooklyn to meet the Rebbe. George merited to receive a blessing and a dollar bill from the Rebbe, something he cherishes until today. He flies planes as a hobby and always keeps that special dollar bill with him on his plane.

This encounter is just another reminder of how far reaching the Rebbe’s leadership and love extends, and continues to inspire, until this very day!

Join me today in doing a mitzvah in honor of the Rebbe!

 

All or Nothing?

All or Nothing?

On Rosh Hashana we are dedicated to change, to renewal. We try to make amends for the past, and start fresh for the next year. But what does change mean? Is it even possible?

In the ideal perspective, change is permanent and irrevocable. I can never go back to the way I once was. I am a changed man.

But, as we know quite well, this type of change, complete internal transformation, is not so easy. Sometimes it does more damage than good: Just knowing how hard it is to change, discourages us from even trying in the first place.

How many of us have not attempted something, because we are afraid of failure? Or given up on our dreams because we will never fulfil them perfectly? Do we look at things as all-or-nothing, and therefore don’t embark on jobs that we may never fully complete? Do we deprive ourselves of the gift of an individual mitzvah that is so dear to us, because we fear becoming ‘completely religious?’ We feel that if we don’t get it all right, we will get nothing right, and it is not worth the effort?

How many of us will not go to the gym because we can’t do it every other day? How many of us do not work on our marriage, because it will never be perfect? How many of us do not mend our relationships with family members, because there are too many demons in the closet? How many of us will not make a spiritual, moral change because it will not be 100 percent perfect?

Rosh Hashanah is here to tell us that G-d embraces every act of change. If I regret one mistake and change that, G-d accepts it fully. Any step forward you manage to take, towards a better more inspired, G-dly life, is infinitely treasured by G-d. It may be one small step by man; but a giant step for G-d.

So friends, this Rosh Hashanah make one change — for a day, a week, a month.

Whatever your struggle or challenge is, tackle it one day and one step at a time, just don’t stay in the same place you were yesterday. Broaden your horizons! Discover more! Learn more! Grow more – as a person and as a Jew.

Count each day – and make each day count!

L’shana Tova!

 

 

Our Trip to New York

Our Trip to New York

Last week I had the privilege of spending quality time in NYC, with a wonderful group of Houston friends. On Wednesday and Thursday, a group of men joined a whirlwind 28-hour ‘Leadership Journey’.

Here are some of the highlights:

  • An insightful meeting and conversations with one of the Jewish world’s leading philanthropists, Mr.George Rohr.
  • We visited and wrapped Tefillin at the renowned Chabad of Midtown on 5th Avenue.
  • A reflective visit to the resting place ‘Ohel’ of the Lubavitcher Rebbe in Queens, guided by author and scholar Rabbi Shais Taub.
  • A superb dinner at New York’s preeminent Kosher steakhouse ‘Reserve Cut.’ 
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Highlights of the second day included:

  • An exclusive opportunity to sit in on a ‘UN Security Council’ session. We heard Israeli Ambassador Danny Danon speak, followed by US Ambassador Nikki Haley. We witnessed from up close in real time, how Israel truly is “a candle of light, in a very dark place.”
  • A guided tour of Chabad HQ with Rabbi Motti Seligson.
  • An insightful chat with Rabbi Yehudah Krinsky, Chairman of Chabad’s Global Network.
  • For Shabbat, four of us, including two women, joined 275 people from all over the country, for a beautiful Shabbaton in Brooklyn.

All participants had a remarkable experience and came home with a much needed boost of Jewish pride, a broader and deeper understanding of Judaism and the philosophy of the Chabad movement.

I am delighted to be home and look forward to seeing everyone in Shul tomorrow!

 

What If You Only Had 20 Minutes?

What If You Only Had 20 Minutes?

On Tuesday at 11:03 AM, the left engine of Southwest flight 1380 blew out. Shrapnel busted a window and tragically killed Jennifer Riordan. Our hearts and prayers go out to her family. At 11:23, captain Tammie Shults, displaying what one passenger called ‘nerves of steel’, safely landed the plane in Philadelphia.

But what happened between 11:03 and 11:23?

Media reports tell us that passengers onboard the plane, foreseeing the worst, frantically made contact with family members to say “I love you” one last time... Some even managed to buy Wi-Fi under those harrowing circumstances to text loved ones. Some said they had to prioritize who to call during their anticipated last moments.

Thank G-d for Tammie Shults, that awesome pilot who made a safe landing, but this story did get me thinking:

“What if I had only 20 minutes to live? How would I spend them? Who would I contact? And In what order? Who would I want to apologize to, or encourage one last time?”

And then I realized, why wait for the ‘end’ to do what’s most important, if I can do those things right now!

We all have important goals in life, which often end up on the backburner because of some pressing current reality. However, now and then, it’s important to recalibrate, and remind ourselves to prioritize our goals and ‘to do’ list, to truly reflect what matters most. Call your loved ones today!

Wishing you a wonderful Shabbat!

Rabbi Yossi Zaklikofsky 

 

 

We’ve Moved!

We’ve Moved!

We are very excited to be celebrating this Shabbat in the new, larger location of The Shul!

There are so many friends who invested time, energy and resources to bring us to this special moment and we look forward to acknowledging them in due time.

The objective of all our efforts is to create a warm space where any and every Jew; man, woman or child can forge a stronger and deeper bond with their heritage and with G-d.

But as it was with the first sanctuary constructed by our ancestors in the dessert, the pre-requisite to being able to draw down the presence of G-d was “Vayakhel” to gather the people together.

When we transcend our differences and unite together around a similar vision and mission, then we can create a sacred space, where every Jew feels welcomed, embraced and never judged for who they are, a space where Divine energy will be felt.

May we share many happy occasions and moments of Jewish celebration, education and pride, until we outgrow it, very soon!

 

Parkland

 Parkland

We are currently in middle of a JLI adult education course entitled The Art of Communication.  In a recent lesson we learned about the importance of Silence. Sometimes silence is the most appropriate response and best form of communication.

Human beings like to know what to say in any given circumstance. However, in the face of tragedy (G-d forbid) we really have nothing to say, we have no words… But, we are there for each other offering support, empathy and love, even without saying a word.

This comes to mind as we struggle to wrap our minds around yet another senseless act of violence, resulting in the tragic death of 17 young people... No parent should ever have to kiss their child goodbye as they head out the door to school… and never see them again…

Maimonides famously wrote: One should always view the world at every moment as hanging in the balance, equally, between good evil; our job is to be a force for goodness, to tilt the scale towards goodness.
 
Yes, Parkland is another reminder that there are forces of evil out there. Let's be sure we are always a force for good! Rather than passive despair, such a tragedy should propel us to push back; to do more in the realm of goodness and kindness, so that each of us is an even greater force for good than we were until now.
 
We pray that Hashem give strength and comfort to the families of those affected. And may we very speedily witness the fulfillment of Hashem's prophetic promise of Moshiach and Redemption, when all people will live in peace and brotherhood, and "G-d will wipe away the tears from every face."

 

Big Announcement

Big Announcement 

We are thrilled to announce that, after an extended search for the optimal solution, yesterday, The Shul of Bellaire signed a lease on a new location at 5307 Bissonnet St, Bellaire. We anticipate the move to take place in the next month or so!

The new space will unite the growing Shul, outstanding Hebrew School and all the very popular community holiday and social events, under one roof, for the first time since opening, seven years ago. This is a game-changer!

The purpose of the move is for The Shul to better accommodate YOU and your family’s needs, and this move would not have been possible if not for YOU, your generosity, friendship and encouragement. This endeavor is truly for the people by the people!

Esty and I are committed to giving our all to raise the level of Jewish awareness, pride and education for every individual in the community. This move will certainly help pave the way for even more involvement, more education and more growth, securing our bright and vibrant Jewish future! Lease.jpg

Among the many who helped bring this endeavor to fruition, there are several who took a leading role. We acknowledge and thank: Mr. Gary Davis and Family, Ron and Melissa JacobsGuillermo GuefenMarshall and Doreen LernerKenneth KatzAnn Miller. Thank you very much and we look forward to an opportunity to publicly thank all of you for being a constant source of strength and encouragement.

Mazel Tov!

Sukkot TV Interview

Holiday Roundup 

A month of incredible Holidays may have passed, but the inspiration has certainly not! 

Whether you were with us at The Shul for the High Holidays, the Shabbaton preparing for them, a meal in the Sukkah, or if you were in on the amazing Simchas Torah celebration; we hope that the energy of those most auspicious days continue to enrich your life and motivate you to appreciate every moment during this New Year.

When Harvey visited Houston and left so much havoc and uncertainty behind, it was not exactly clear how we would get through the month of Holidays. Where would we live? Where would we build a Sukkah this year?

Yet, with the blessings of G-d almighty and the love, care and concern of an amazing community, this past month has been the most amazing Holiday season yet! Close to 400 experienced The Shul of Bellaire at some point, with 200 people visiting our (temporary) Sukkah behind our (temporary) home.

As the story of Noah teaches us, even with the floodwaters raging all around us, with the help of G-d we are able to create a space for our family and community to be together and appreciate life's blessings. As a friend wrote to me: “Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it’s about learning to dance in the rain."

CLICK HERE FOR TV INTERVIEW

I would like to thank some of those who were so helpful over this Holiday season:

First and foremost to my dear wife Esty who selflessly carries out her responsibilities regardless of the circumstances and always with grace and a smile.

Thank you so much to my dear brother, our Cantor Mendel for all the moving prayers. Thank you to Dede Aronack at Acme Rentals for your generosity. Thank you to Ann Miller and the DavisJacobs, Leventon and Kaufman families and all the incredibly generous friends who helped sponsor the Kiddush lunches, and to all the staff who helped with the children’s programs and everyone who participated to make it the most beautiful High Holiday season yet. 

Hope to see you tomorrow in Shul! 

 

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